Saturday, January 08, 2005

On Betrayal...

What is betrayal? This is something which have been going thru my mind from time to time...
Ever come across the same question as me?

Well, Elvin was telling me how and when betrayals can happen and ya, i think its quite true...
Most of us, when we meet someone, we'll definitely be on our guard first. Until after we had really interacted very well, and know more about that person already, do we really lower our guard a little. And until when we became close friends, where there's a certain level of trust between overselves, thats when our guard is at its lowest, where we will be most vulnerable to any forms of damages.

And thats when Elvin says:" Thats when betrayals happen, its only when u least expected it, or the people whom u trust the most, have the capabilities to betray you. Else how can a stranger betray you when u are already on guard, when basically he knows nothing important about you?"

Hmmm... very true... and thats also when betrayals could hurt the most, when things aren't as you thought it should be...

I'm not saying that everyone should begin to scrutinize everything your friends do, or start to build barriers to let friends know less about you... Just that always remember that whatever you do, when things dun go as expected or people strike you down further when you thought they were suppose to help you... Stay alive! Cos these people have just proven themselves not worthy of your friendship and all the sacrifices you've done for them...

At the same time, cherish all those friends who have stayed with you thruout all the rough patches in life, and return them the same level of trust they've put in you...

Once again, thanks to yx, sok, ck, jh, bryan for building this trust in our relationships....

Life is beautiful...


alvinz blogged at 2:08 AM

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